Hi Sarah, Happy Birthday! It is interesting how we arrive at similar perspectives from very different roads...We are so much more alike than we are different from each other. Honestly, I don't think we are supposed to be "okay with it all", not fully. What then would we reach for? When we remember winning a race or a contest or a game or even another relationship, the parts that stick with us are the journey to the "win", and not so much the moment it ended and we achieved what we were aiming for. At least it feels that way. Thank you, I am glad that you enjoy the writing. I hope your birthday is everything you want it to be! Sending you love and lots of light.